At the Darwaza of a Road Less Travelled

At the end of the Lockdown outings had meant going for drives. Like happy little puppies literally, with our nozzled noses at the window, hair (not ears) flying in the wind, it was sheer bliss being out of the house, seeing the world with new eyes! Slightly scarred by months of indoors, anywhere out was good with me! Having reached Mhow during the monsoon a visit to Jam Darwaza was a De rigueur and to be any more ‘out’ from there one would be off the Malwa plateau! We decided to catch the sun rise for a change at Jam Darwaza. It meant being up before five, which is not my favourite cup of tea, waking up a surprisingly agreeable teenager and getting the real tea organized. On the winding drive in the dark we overtook a large herd of sheep on the road with their herders. I had seen these Gadarias (as they are known in these parts) a few days back outside Indore on the highway. It had been a sight to see the traffic stop to let the women, setting out to follow the men, cross with their camels. I had wished I could meet these nomads.

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The light beyond the bend

Since it was built around 1790-91, during the reign of Ahilya Bai Holkar, the double storied arched Jam Darwaza straddling the road going down to the Nimar plains from the Malwa plateau has been a solitary sentinel and proverbial gateway. Named after a hamlet nearby with a blink and miss fortress at one end and a chhatri at the other end of a pond, the structure has been a favourite drive-to destination, to catch sunsets over a cuppa, watch the villages below light up mirroring the sky above, dark forests giving way to light fields, lakes dotting the countryside, to feel a bit at world’s end.

When the road is home

Nearing Jam Darwaza that morning, I noticed a herders’ camp right at the end of the plateau being wound up. What a dream campsite! The old gate and the craggy slopes at the bend were all but a silhouette in the faint light of dawn when our headlights fell on another lot of men and their sheep making their way through the arch. I was taken aback to see couple of cars already parked at the Darwaza at that ungodly hour. Billion plus population has to show, the sardonic teenager commented from the back seat. Youngsters wanting to set Insta on fire with visuals of a flaming sunrise at Jam! The excellent new road and a burgeoning population now ensures the Darwaza has a incessant stream of temporary visitors and hawkers, and permanent company of makeshift shops and half constructed loos blocking the best view. Who will sit on that throne and stare at a wall imagining the scenery beyond? Having contemplated such profound issues over tea and being ditched by a sun not allowed to keep his date by dour clouds we started back. We ran into the caravan of camels and women hitting the road.

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Explorers meet Travellers

Standing on the road I spied a girl cut across the dip of a dry stream, lanky mutt in tow from the camp site. By the time I asked the young boy leading the camels if I could take a photograph she was there, teasing him while he looked bashfully around. “Selfie loge?”,(Will you take a selfie?) she asked, throwing me off kilter. Et tu? I noticed lipstick and bindi on a scrubbed face. I would rather have taken her photograph alone. She turned self conscious as I obliged, my morning face ruining the frame. The other girl leading the second camel had been smiling indulgently. Totally self composed, beautiful with an open inquisitive look she didn’t look a day above 18. The caravan swayed forward as I stepped back on the side and took a video. Chatting with me without breaking their quickening stride the next question was if I was going to make a music video leaving me slightly nonplussed. I was quickly getting the impression that this encounter might be my first but definitely not theirs.

The young boy and the two girls set off at a quick pace after being photographed. The following women and girls passed by, chatting on the move, seemingly used to taking folks like me in their stride. The younger eyes dancing with amusement, the older ones more weary, smiling more guardedly. All dressed in traditional finery – upper arms covered with bangle sets, solid silver anklets, big nose pins on some, heads covered, hands firmly on their hips leading the camels lassoed around their shoulders. Whoever says ‘striding’ is masculine needs to see these women walk -fast yet graceful; dark, full skirts swishing with each step. Their camels swaying with their own rhythm, loaded with precious belongings- giant cots upside down holding bleating lambs, emaciated hounds, and sleepy kids. The stragglers, still at the now almost wound up camp, being loaded and coaxed to rise for another day, another long walk.

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On the forever road

Driving home we encountered the other group of herders we’d crossed in the dark earlier. The white tunics and dhotis and cardinal red turbans of the mustachioed men adding a bright dash to the black fallow undulating fields amidst hillocks covered with flowering teak, flame of the forest and mahua trees, all washed and nourished to shades of green by last night’s shower. The shorn herd of sheep, in shades of black and white, moved en mass with the odd lamb frisking about. A sharp whistle was all the communication needed between the herdsman and his huddle.

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While travelling to new destinations has been quarantined the last few months one discovered that just being on the road can be an experience into itself. And maybe we got it wrong! Wishes are not horses, they may be camels and I may not want to ride them but hopefully one day I’ll walk with them and these nomads, true blue, always on the move travellers, on that winding path through that Darwaza and it will be a whole new way to see the road less travelled.

Same Place, New Attitude

With the tentative opening up of tourism the novelty of travelling within the four walls of one’s home has dissipated faster than steam from a tea pot in winter. For months we explored, sometimes with great delight, the sundry corners of our houses. From the cool serene bedroom to the vibrant drawing room with pit stops to moist bathrooms left sultrier after our cooling off. The kitchen throwing up culinary surprises or disasters, with every homegrown sous chef having his day in the sun, but at the end of the day everyone in the kitchen hierarchy wanting to throw in the towel at the endless washing cycle! Sojourns to the great outdoors- the verdant balcony, with game hunting swarms of mosquitoes, with the hunter becoming the hunted very quickly, ending the outing prematurely, with only the brave keeping at it. The travel itch being scratched by leafing through old pics, making plans and promises not to put off a visit to that exotic hideaway. The more remote the locale, more the allure……

It doesn’t get more remote than- Chushul -Chumathang  – Hello Indus & Iridescent Colours!

Would you rather go to see this?….

A whiff of opening up of travel and tourism has had people scrambling for vacations, workations, staycations, bizcations…. new jargons barely keeping up to speed with people rushing off like escaping convicts. In absolute desperation to fly their city coops, people with deep pockets have been willing to buy up the entire homestay and make it theirs, permanently. But in this mad scramble to get away what is new? ‘Vocal for Local’ is a catchy phrase but it has many connotations. Let us not treat it glibly, like a superficial seasonal trend of 2020. Hospitality is a resource intense industry. From infrastructure to perishables and everything in between, in most parts much of what is needed is not locally available or recyclable. Although tourism is the life blood and backbone of the local economy in a lot of places, our creature comfort seeking mannerisms have taken a toll on the health of the ecology in most places. Nature has got a breather the past months and hopefully we have had time to pause and reflect on our travelling styles.

In a lot of those off beat places, looking so enticing right now with nature providing natural distancing, what has changed? The healthcare infrastructure is still abysmal as is waste disposal. So all those disposables adding weight to our travelling pack- masks, sanitizers, gloves maybe crockery and cutlery, water bottles et al, all is going to add to that mountain/sea…of waste! The hotel industry, based on social interaction is grappling with new norms and reality but drained of cash, is throwing open doors in a lot of places. It has had to, understandably, shift gears to stay afloat. But catering for the need of the hour is going to put an exponential strain on the drain. The guests expect sanitization procedures to be followed to the T, interaction with staff in proper safety kits always, etc. So while tourists bring livelihood to the hospitality table the locals need to bring better resource management to it to make the party a sustainable affair. Bursting the health bubble of far flung communities where there are negligible healthcare facilities to deal with epidemics is almost criminal. Even most tourist towns can barely cope up with the needs of the locals and are not equipped to deal with even a marginal rise in demand for medical emergencies.

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Reduce, Reuse, Recycle – Repeat!

Ask yourself before hitting the holy grail of holiday bliss- what will be your new normal travelling style? Arm yourself with answers to these pertinent points to ponder, along with that recyclable sanitizer and mask when you step out.

Dera Jaipur: A Homestay for Stellar Style and Exceptional Experiences

A knock on the door made me jump out of my cozy bed. Draupadi stood there with a beaming smile and the morning tea tray. (A well laid tea tray is a dying art.) As she placed the tray on the table I drew the curtains back in the big window of my spacious room. The Kachnar trees outside the window were swaying in the breeze and the purple, fuchsia flowers stood out starkly against a grey sky mirroring the colour palette of my room. I suddenly spied the Yellow sunbird I had seen the previous afternoon, as it took off to chase a bumblebee, through the canopy of flowers and leaves. What a sight to wake up to!

Sunbird and swaying Kachnars outside my window

Jaipur Jaunt

The morning I reached, at the Jaipur railway station, as I cancelled my second Ola ride, a man, who has obviously been eavesdropping tells me that Bani Park, the tony locality where Dera Jaipur is located, is too near for most cab drivers to bother with sometimes. I thank my stars for its proximity as I re-book. (My Ola booking experiences are stories in themselves.) My third Ola driver – Lalu Prasad Yadav, who acknowledges his name with a wry laugh, deposits me in front of the homestay in 5 min. The gate is opened by a woman in traditional attire before I can ring the bell- Draupadi. She whisks my luggage away as I follow her, admiring the garden with its bougainvillea creepers in a mélange of colours framing the wall fountain. Mrs. Rekha Singh, my oh-so elegant host is right there at the door to receive me. The 5 bedroom boutique homestay – Dera Jaipur, belongs to General Karni Singh and Mrs. Rekha Rani Singh of the House Gangiasar.

When taste and travel meet

 Dera Jaipur:  Serenely Soignée

We sit down in her well appointed drawing room and exchange travel notes. Both she and her husband, General Karni Singh, a prominent neurosurgeon (Infact he was among the first to use Botox in India and is a passionate sportsman to boot. And no, I didn’t ask him whether I needed a jab or two.) are avid travelers and over coffee done to the ‘T’ in a giant mug (How did they guess that’s what I like my coffee in!) she regales me with anecdotes of their recent travels. As I admire the room, an eclectic blend of family heirlooms and tasteful bric a brac  from their travels, she points out the rug gifted by the erstwhile King of Afghanistan and the Thangka , gifted by the King of Bhutan, both having  been attended to by the General. What I particularly love about the place is that it is a home, classily done up, reflecting the times we live in but the hospitality is rooted in traditional ethos. The ‘wow factor’ is refined without overpowering and is centered mostly in the common areas.

As we wait for lunch to be served, I am introduced to the family history and that of the Shekhawat rulers depicted in the mural dominating the dining area. The family is part of one of the ruling clans of the harsh and unforgiving Shekhawati region, which used to stand as a bulwark on the trading route, north of Jaipur and has produced a proud race of warriors. There are stories told down the generations, of traditions, alliances, and of aboriginal tribes now lost.

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History on the wall

Lunch is a traditional fare of melt in the mouth patod and bajra roti along with mirchas made in typical Shekhawati style. After that and given the early morning start I’ve had, I happily crawl into a big inviting bed. (The one reason I dislike Shatabdis- their ungodly departure timings from Delhi.) The rooms are spaciously serene yet elegant and the hostess’ love for art and drama pops up here too. One has its own private marble waterfall outside the window, another has this painting conceptualized by Mrs. Singh to depict homecoming with the very Indian iconography of gaudhuli, happy cows being led home by a blue bull depicting Krishna with a Pichwai backdrop. An artful summing up of Dera Jaipur.

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Happy homecoming

The evening tea tray bears a generously filled, flaky kachori. I philosophically wolf it down. I mean Rajasthan is home to this and if not here then where? But after that thankfully someone in the house has read my mind and dinner is a light affair with a touch of the Raj starting with a flavourful Mulligatawny soup. The next morning after a hearty breakfast which includes Bajra Raab sweetened with organic jaggery I am so tempted to just hang out on the bougainvillea lined terrace with a book from the small library and a mug of coffee and totally skip the shopping planned at Sikar market. I just manage to make a quick dash as visions of missed steal deals nag me.

Discover the kachori’s big cousin in- Nasirabad’s Kachora: More than a Savoury Story

Choose a book and then a nook

I went as a guest but I left feeling like I have a home to go to in Jaipur now. The experience is distinctive and thoughtfully planned and one might be tempted to forgo the charms of Jaipur. I experienced hospitality Gangiasar style and had a staycation at a special home. When are you planning yours?

Niche Experiences at Dera Jaipur

My stay was too short to experience the activities that can be organized if one wishes, at Dera Jaipur, apart from the usual.

Attend a culinary demo or better still, be part of a select crowd sampling a curated sit-down meal by a chef specially invited to lay out the gastronomical spread.

Dabble in mural art work under the tutelage of an expert and take back the masterpiece!

Over a sun-downer, have a fun photo session all dressed up like the rajas of yore.

Pre-book a special celebration during a family get-together.

Fact file-

Address –

D-226, Tulsi Marg

Bani Park, Jaipur, Rajasthan 

 Website- https://www.derajaipur.com/

Tel: 073575 42999